Sunday, February 3, 2008

Some grave issues....


I have recently been catching up on all the episodes of the show "Deperate Housewives" online. I simply love the sarcastic humour and drama involved....so much better than the regular soaps. Now, before you start rushing away thinking this is about the show, lemme tell you, it is not...

Well...the last episode that I saw had a tornado hitting Wisteria Lane (
yes, that's where the characters reside) and some of the characters getting killed. No...I'm not mourning the death of Gabrielle's husband. (even she didn't!!)

But the scene which moved me the most was the one where the characters of Lynette Scavo and Mrs.McCluskey go to a football field to scatter the ashes of Ida Greenberg. Just before they are spread on the grass, Mrs. McCluskey recited a poem which completely blew me away. Did some googling, to find that, it was after all quite a popular poem at funerals across the world.

According to theory, "Do not stand at my grave and weep" was written by Mary Elizabeth Frye for her German Jewish friend, as a condolence message on her mother's death. The moment I heard the lines, I knew that I didn't want anything more when I'm buried, than my epitaph to read this lines!!

There have been various disputed versions of this poem, but the essence being the same, each time.

DO NOT STAND AT MY GRAVE AND WEEP

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the starshine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I did not die.
P.S: To all my friends who are rushing to grab the phone and call me - Breathe easy, it was just a random thought. I'm not gonna kill myself!! :P

6 Comments:

Blogger Unknown said...

welcome to the world of blogging.. nice poem that you want to use

February 3, 2008 at 8:34 PM  
Blogger Pseudo Intellectual said...

THESE lines

February 4, 2008 at 11:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That made sense. I hope when I die, instead of weeping, people instead appreciate the life I lived and loved :)

February 13, 2008 at 2:01 AM  
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February 13, 2008 at 2:02 AM  
Blogger Desiderata said...

hey ... thats a wonderful Blog altogether.... keep posting

February 27, 2008 at 11:51 PM  
Blogger Ninitha said...

Oh that poem is so Aweeeee..Its so pretty and sad at the same time. I love it. I was just plannin a post on the same lines and now I know which poem to incorporate. ;)

btw..Get ya tiny ass back to blogging chiki..I like you train of thought.

June 4, 2008 at 7:59 AM  

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